I don't have a look to kill for nor do I deserve the title drop dead gorgeous but I assure that you don't have to fit those criteria for people to fall head over heels over you.Sometime I did suffer from inferior complexity, thanks to those beautiful people around me whether its my sister or friends(they are great people btw) but couple of times did friends remind me to the nicest part of me is he&she said that "being beautiful without you even realised it put you in a different above league than the others ".THANK YOU,I LOVE YOU GUYS!Im totally flatterd but I seriously need to learn how to received compliments as Im suck at it.*wink*
Just be yourself, carry yourselves charmingly and don't be fake for whatever reason as it clearly portray that people only will look at you if you become someone else; which is bad .You dont have entire life to living a life that wasnt yours so today,after numbers of observations( occurred in my daily life)here what I came out about the flirt issue :
Situation 1 : A sheepish smile by the young lad who takes my order every time I stopped by at the Delifrance, he said so much by saying nothing.He speaks trough his eyes or always used his ladies co-workers to get information or send his regards to me.It is a flirt right?
What's the differences between a crush and a flirt?
Well, I wouldn't know because most of the people flirting (if that what they were doing!) with me(I LOVE to believe that!) are among the people who have high possibility for me to have crush on them*wink*<---- you will get a lot of winking today!But 1 thing for sure flirting is such a harmless activities, no emotion involved nor do we know that person(most of the time!)because based on experience only complete strangers or very close person to us that would flirt with us.
Just be yourself, carry yourselves charmingly and don't be fake for whatever reason as it clearly portray that people only will look at you if you become someone else; which is bad .You dont have entire life to living a life that wasnt yours so today,after numbers of observations( occurred in my daily life)here what I came out about the flirt issue :
Situation 1 : A sheepish smile by the young lad who takes my order every time I stopped by at the Delifrance, he said so much by saying nothing.He speaks trough his eyes or always used his ladies co-workers to get information or send his regards to me.It is a flirt right?
Situation 2 : The time when you walk by yourself to anywhere and some young guys will start those 'phewitt' or sweet talk with just to get your attention.Its kind a rude from where I'm looking at it but don't lie by denying that you somehow enjoy and like it.It is a flirt right?
Situation 3 : When a friend who is a boy/man give hints that he's waiting or only have his eyes/heart for you.When words like 'I'll do anything for you' easily slipped from his mouth just like that did he/them meant it for the purpose of flirting with us?It is a flirt right?
What's the differences between a crush and a flirt?
Well, I wouldn't know because most of the people flirting (if that what they were doing!) with me(I LOVE to believe that!) are among the people who have high possibility for me to have crush on them*wink*<---- you will get a lot of winking today!But 1 thing for sure flirting is such a harmless activities, no emotion involved nor do we know that person(most of the time!)because based on experience only complete strangers or very close person to us that would flirt with us.
Need to remind that a girl's heart is fragile like a thin surface of ice waiting to be broke anytime if you skate onto it. Give the right signs if only you mean it.
me,a serial flirter :)
3 comments:
Situation 1: Some guys are generally nervous around pretty girls.
Situation 2: Watch out, these are not very good signs.
Situation 3: That's not flirting, he's got feelings for you (probably, OR he wants you to think so).
Situation X: Crushes don't usually show up as obviously as flirts, and flirts don't usually have any feelings for the target. They're probably doing it to look cool, play a prank, on dare, or they have some funny ideas.
Be careful of how you judge approaches.
Me, for instance. I'm (generally) nice to everyone, but one or two girls have in the past misunderstood my behaviour as flirtatious... which is why I'm planning to cut down on being a good person.
wow,listen to yourselves luqman!sounded like a pro-flirter!hahaha:p but thanks for your opinions though :)
but a guy should know the thin line between being nice between friends(girls) as well as being 'nice' in the sense you have crush or whatsoever..at least thats what i think!
If there is a thin line, then I'm not risking going near it... at the cost of my niceness, hehe...
Me, a flirt? Nope, no chance.
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