What is wrong about being S.I.N.G.L.E?

This topic is been brought up mainly because all those people asking about why dO i named my blog the way I did.Simple,it defines me!Ok,sometimes about the sarcastic part I dont even realised it was there but friends are the one who always remind me(thats what they are for right?to make sure our feet planted firmly on the ground)how I deserved the 'Queen of Sarcasm's' title but being me I wont realised till the minute they say 'OMG/OUCH, you're being mean & sarcastic,AGAIN!'.For the 2nd part of my blog's title which is single,ermmm thats my status.Which part of it is hard to understand?duhhh~hahaha...

I strongly think when we have so many love in our life insyaALLAH we will never go wrong.But when we specifically talking about serious relationship it takes time,effort and physically&mentally prepared to be in it.Because we need to put as much dedication to nurture the love we get same as we did the time we're looking for it.I would love to stand by my opinion that there can never be a 3rd person who brings problem or put an end to a relationship,only when the 2 persons involved doesnt love each other anymore than is when the 3rd person issues will be created by them. As I wrote/describe myself in about me section Im a huge relationship phobic I've ever known so there it goes.A lot of people ( read : friends!) keep asking about my so called invisible boyfriend at every chance they have especially at our reunion or any hangout session but..I'll make it into a conversation so that you can get a glimpse what am I going through being a single lady all this time and its getting serious and hard being one these days.And below are some excerpts of the conversation faced by a single girl :-

On 1 not so fine reunion day...
friend : (after exchange warm hugs,air kissing,and all that this is the main question ask by most
acquaintances) hey cheda,whats up?OMG,u look slimmer compare to the last time we
met!(yeah,i wish!just added this 1 to make it more fiction.hahaha)

me : fine,tq but i know u just saying that*blushing*how r u?hows ur life?

friend : great,so u'r coming here alone?wheres ur bf?

me : (tersenyum malu T_T) then I say 'no lah,where got bf'

friend : u'r lying!no need to lie us lah.

me : (mocking them in my heart) "If u dont want to believe me better dont ask next time!"hahaha..then as usual the cunning me will change the topic in a heart beat and no one will ever realised that.

So far I have all the love I need for now,what about you?

me asking where is the love to the world?

MAYHEM is so the IN thing right now!

Sarah just said to us that the theme song in Spa-Q 2 is so like describing our situation right now and the title above have been my shout out at YM and MSN for the past 2 weeks.Ok,it may not be related but believe me as we go through it will.Hopefully.We are not fans of Datuk Siti Nurhaliza but we do love some of her works,and the latest one listed in our list.The song title is 'Cinta Padamu' and the lyrics are so perfect to fit this moment that I can used the phrase of art imitates the life of us,coincidently.I hate this feeling and this cold air that I've experienced before during our foundation days,but lucky as we can called it that we FLWbers stick together during ups and downs and through thick & thin especially Debob,Z,Fif,and us the Sweet Bunch & The Cots.Alhamdulillah,nothing till date can make us to be those we'r not fancy of in this life.Its not that before we dont fight and all that but we never give it a chance to become an insurmountable obstacle between us,we know each other very well to get affected by those old lame rumours.Really pray that this mayhem will go away.Far away!


me,who dont like this feeling anymore!

6th February 2006

Each year on this day made me wonder how good life will be if Nenek Jo still around :) Miss nenek every moment!3 years ago when she left us forever I thought that I will never be able to survive or move on but I guess I was wrong because who said once they are no more in this world they will be forgotten forever.Far at sight but really close in our heart:) I miss those days when we used to talk on the phone every Friday(since I was 5 because that is the time I discovered how easy to used the telephone,hehe),when we used to eat ice-cream every time we watch Hindi movies together(nenek introduced me the lime+vanilla ice-cream),and those moments we went to market and mocking the Apek who wouldnt give us cheaper price for pyjamas..Basically I miss every minute I've spend with nenek!When you are not coming from a big family like me,you will, believe me appreciate and cherish every and each relationship that you have in your life.But Im not saying that people who do have big family doesnt do that,it just that from my perspective for this past 20 years I do attached to people quite easily ONCE I know for sure I love them and they are among the best thing happen in my life.Im so dependent on my parents(ayah & along most of it) makes me feel that its hard to make it in this concrete jungle who doesnt give a damn about TLC when you feel down.That is why I love all my close friends very...very dearly!Thanks for bear with me all this time,Im just being me.hehe..Hope to be friends till......basically FOREVER!


me who missing Nenek & schooling days :)